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How to handle Robespierre

By popular demand of workers try to compile information on the relationship with Robespierres Gyugoshkami and all the beautiful half of humanity, gathered by me and other members of the forum. Thus I beg your pardon, if my notes seem to someone subjective, very difficult to determine where it ends and begins a private model. I studied the reports and observations of other Robespierre and Gyugoshek, comparing them with his attitude, and this is what came of it ...

1. Where you can find all of Robespierre? And everywhere, everywhere, but most likely - where is the application of its white logic and where there is scope for his black intuition. For some reason it is considered that the most Robik among a programmer and programmers (just in case I say that I - not a programmer). Those that older, can deploy in higher education. They usually love to travel, hiking, sometimes - sport. In clubs and other entertainment establishments are unlikely to meet them, they go there often, but more on that below. How Robespierre - the theme of a separate study, but one thing I ask, if you Gyugoshka - not to be confused with Balzac, rationality - a delicate ...

2. Probably all Robespierres agree that they know is not easy, and dating a very uncomfortable situation because of the weakness of introversion and white ethics (as well as black sensing even weaker still slip out through the black intuition). Even if you Robik very much and he dare to meet you, he will look a bit shaky. Incidentally, one of the features of this type - the desire to be or at least to seem polite and courteous. If he wants to make conversation - will support, even better - take the initiative, he will appreciate it. Well, if the conversation will be neutral-friendly, but the desperate flirtation might frighten him, set emotional contact gradually. If you vrednichat, teasing, making dissatisfied and detached expression on her face, all the forces to represent unwillingness to communicate, and think that he of all this only be acquired ... Believe me, do not be acquired (but not Gabin) is likely to be upset and leave. Then it will be a very long time to think what he did wrong, and you will be lost forever. So if you really need - will support him in this difficult moment for him and not pay attention to some of its inadequacies, continue with it will be much more interesting.

3. You can search Robespierre on the Internet. It would seem, that's room for Robik - does not require such intensive work on the ethics of white, as in the real, black sensing generally rests, but on socionic site - so simple conditions as close to ideal. If Socionics - science to explain human relations by logical methods, such a science - just a godsend for Robespierre. He develops it with pleasure, but were reluctant to believe until he will not understand it all. It would seem, sociable Gyugoshkam there is no need to introduce new acquaintances through the Internet, but the stubborn site statistics show that girls - Gyugoshek here more than the guys - Robespierre. Perhaps they are registered active, Robik just shy. But if you signed up - check email from time to time, suddenly something interesting will come. About the questionnaire and photos even somehow uncomfortable to recall that you Stirlitz better than me explain. In virtual reality, as in ordinary life, Gyugoshki show more initiative than Robespierre. As long as Robik eyes get the number of questionnaires and while he collected his thoughts, to decide someone to write something, most likely he will get something interesting, and certainly deem it my duty to answer (if the answer is no - well, He can mentally break). With access to the real difficulty may be due to uncertainty of Robespierre and the chronic shortage of time at Gyugoshki, and sometimes it happens - muffled conversations. So I advise not to delay the correspondence, and find common interests (and interests in Robespierre's set) and move into real. For this fit any, even the most trivial pretext, even if it is not - Robespierre help him think. And another interesting point - if you and liked you man shared Kilometers - do not be afraid to write this Robespierres to rise slightly.

4. For the first date, probably best on a simple walk, of course, if weather permits. You can also sit somewhere quiet and cozy place, the main thing - that the situation allowed to talk. In klubische or a disco it's worth it from time to time to pull out, that he did not feel abandoned and estranged from life, but he usually does not go there. Robespierres respond poorly to heavy and loud music because of introversion and low sensor systems. Big, noisy and unfamiliar company, they usually dislike, contact with new strangers find it difficult to establish, though sometimes not. If you still want to introduce Robespierre and his company - not just drag it to the big parties, better get acquainted with everyone in the queue. Generally, Robespierre is only hinted at the meeting, he will propose a course of several options, hints he understands well. Only persuade will not be too somehow convince themselves. If you go along to the cinema or other similar event - ask him to accompany you to the house or take a walk together, to be able to communicate properly and safely, without this date can not be considered valid.

5. What one can say with Robespierre? Yes on anything important - not silent. Gyugoshki usually very talkative, but only this Robik want, let them "set up on a wave, listens and corrects, if that is not so. Silent girls Robespierre usually get nervous, do not know what to talk to them and how they shake, and the traditional phrase "Tell me something interesting" in general leads to a state of confusion lung. No, usually he has something to tell, and storytellers from Robespierres good. However, it is unlikely to be able to guess that it will be interesting companion, especially if he sees her first-second time and had not yet properly explored. Nevertheless, interest in Robik usually quite a lot, so probably there will be quickly shared interests, and with them the themes for communication.

6. And one more hook on Robespierre. As we all understand, Jack secretly wants to be invited home. But Robespierre, probably would like to be able together somewhere to get in a hike on nature or on an excursion to the nearby town. If Robik to you seriously - certainly offer something similar. Generally, Robik do not like to sit in one place, they love to travel and just move. There are among them, and extreme, but pointless to risk they do not like. In secret I will say that life's companion, you can take with them to the ends of the world - dream of Robespierre ...

7. Robespierre, by their nature being quite susceptible, but very responsive, and make him serious feelings if you want you can. However, he doubted all the time, sometimes can not even understand their feelings, not to mention yours, and if not to give him emotional support, can get stuck in their doubts. Keep it positive emotions, then certainly it will not be tortured, and indecision pass quickly. Robespierres, despite some hesitancy, dislike uncertainty and are set to the result, the process of courtship they are interested enough. Decide on a proactive they can, if intuitively see a real chance of success, the rule "do not catch up, so get warm" they did not like. Sometimes they can be very decisive, although usually this determination not last long. Castles prefer not to take by storm, and the ingenious and unobtrusive siege, without the slightest hint of coercive pressure, but using modern non-lethal weapons (all will not disclose, otherwise it would be boring). If Robespierre was not really fond of a joke - it will build the most complex and intricate combinations to win the hearts of the ladies ...

8. Do not need to take on the jealousy of Robespierre, even in jest. First, he has a fertile imagination, which can be imagined do not know that, and secondly - the extremely weak black sensing is not intended to stand, so all can very quickly and sad end. Most likely he will not arrange the fight against real or supposed rival, but just wish you happiness (although internally upset no joke), and fix anything then it will be very problematic. Nor should we ever make him constantly chasing you and try to persuade you, this sin Princess - Gamletessy. Perhaps some time will try, but for a long time such abuse is not a stand - run away. By the way, to break the existing relationship, even uncomfortable, it is very difficult in such situations, he tries to suppress the voice of black intuition, because of what is suffering, and when all the ends - a sense of relief.

9. Now the very-very ... Robespierre because of his natural shyness probably will not solicit and do not drag you to bed, though sometimes not averse to him by such accomplished. Or at least very transparently hinted hints he understands well. Or without the words given to understand that you can act. And best of all, if everything happens as if by itself. If you chance particularly hesitant instance - you can even drink a little, so he relaxed. Military pressure, he does not like to react solely on affection and tenderness. Despite the indecision, he is usually very well trained. If too long, nothing happens - sooner or later he will realize that you are not interested, although it may say nothing. On the other hand, if she "surrenders without a fight, most likely will not perceive it seriously. And when you can? Or you may need when the emotional connection has been established, without any pleasure - sensing weak.

10. Once again - on the ethical and sensory aspects. If the first Robespierre responsive and even completely train, then by the second is much worse. If he just did not notice your new outfit or change of appearance - a sign of weak white sensor systems, rather than indifference to you. By the way, he does not like surprises, so the dye in green or otherwise radically change the appearance does not recommend. Choosing gifts for him - the torment, preferably something to suggest or even hint at. On the other hand, if the fantasy suggests several options - it will help to prioritize. Generally, their wishes must designate it as intuition, not telepathic. Fight with the disorder seems to have together - Robespierre can be a long time not to notice the unmade canoe in the middle of the room and other foreign objects, while they do not interfere with him to live and work. Sometimes Robespierre is a desire to take care of his neighbor, but that's to take care of himself he does not like. Robespierre may be a long time to do without comfort and coziness, but if you bother about it - it would be nice. However, this still does not Don Quixote, for him the main thing - do not care, and serious feelings and positive emotions, which in any real Gyugoshki should be more than enough.

Nikolay Kolpakov

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