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How to handle Robespierre

Due to numerous requests of workers to try to compile information on the relationship between Robespierre Gyugoshkami and generally with a beautiful half of humanity, gathered myself and other members of the forum. In this case I apologize in advance if my notes seem to someone subjective, very difficult to determine where the model ends and begins a personal one. I studied the reports and observations of other Robespierre and Gyugoshek, comparing them with his attitude, and this is what came of it ...

1. Where all can be found Robespierre? And everywhere, everywhere, but most likely - where is the application of its white logic and where there is scope for his black intuition. For some reason it is considered that most Robic among programmers and software (just in case I say that I - not a programmer). The older, may be deployed in higher education. They usually love traveling, hiking, sometimes - sport. In clubs and other entertainment establishments are unlikely to meet them, they go there often, but more on that shortly. How Robespierre - the topic of a separate study, but one thing I ask, if you Gyugoshka - not to be confused with Balzac, rationality - is a tricky business ...

2. I guess all Robespierres agree that they know is not easy, but the situation is dating a very uncomfortable because of the weakness of introversion and white ethics (as well as black sensing even weaker still wriggle through the black intuition). Even if you Robic liked it and he decided to meet you, he will look a bit shaky. Incidentally, one of the features of this type - the desire to be or at least to seem polite and courteous. If he wants to start a conversation - support, even better - take the initiative, he will appreciate it. Well, if the conversation will be neutral or friendly, but the desperate advances it can startle install emotional contact gradually. If you vrednichat, pin up, make-detached displeased expression on his face, by all means to represent unwillingness to communicate, and think that he of all that will be acquired only ... Believe me, no will be acquired (but not Gabin) is likely to be upset and leave. Then it will be a very long time to think what he did wrong, and you will be lost forever. So if you really need it - support it in this difficult moment for him and not pay attention to some of its inadequacies, the more of them will be much more interesting.

3. You can search Robespierre on the Internet. It would seem, that expanse for Robik - does not require such intensive work on the white ethics, as in the real, black sensor systems generally rests, and socionical site - so simple conditions as close to ideal. If Socionics - science that allows to explain human relations by logical methods, it is a science - a finding for Robespierre. He develops it with pleasure, but are reluctant to believe until he around will not understand. It would seem, sociable Gyugoshkam there is no need to make acquaintance through the Internet, but the stubborn site statistics show that girls - Gyugoshek here more than the guys - Robespierre. Perhaps they are registered active, Robic just shy. But if you have registered - check mail from time to time, suddenly something interesting will come. About profiles and photos somehow uncomfortable to recall that you Stirlitz better than I can explain. In virtual reality, as in ordinary life, Gyugoshki show more initiative than Robespierre. As long as Robik eyes get the number of questionnaires and while he collected his thoughts, to dare someone to write something, most likely he will get something interesting, and certainly deem it my duty to answer (if the answer is no - well, not He can mentally tear). With access to the real difficulty may be due to indecisiveness of Robespierre and the chronic lack of time at Gyugoshki, and sometimes this happens - muffled conversations. So I advise you not to prolong the correspondence, and find common interests (and interests in Robespierre's set), and on the real. To do this, but anyone, even the most trivial pretext, even if it is not - Robespierre help him come up. And another interesting point - if you and liked you man shares kilometers - do not be afraid to write this Robespierres to lift lungs.

4. For the first meeting probably would be the best simple walk, unless, of course, weather permitting. You can also sit somewhere quiet and comfortable place, the main thing - that the situation allowed to talk. In klubische or disco it is from time to time to pull that he did not feel abandoned and isolated from life, but he usually does not go there. Robespierres respond badly to heavy and loud music because of introversion and low sensor systems. Big, noisy and unfamiliar company, they usually do not like, contact with new strangers find it difficult to establish, though sometimes not. If you still want to introduce Robespierre with his company - do not pull him immediately to a great get-together better Expose all in turn. Generally, it is worth Robespierre only hint at the meeting, he had to go ask a few options, hints he understands well. Just do not be persuaded, so somehow persuade themselves. If you instead go to the cinema or other similar event - ask him to accompany you to the house or take a walk together, to be able to communicate properly and safely, without this date can not be considered valid.

5. What one can say with Robespierre? Yes about anything important - not to remain silent. Gyugoshki usually very talkative, and Robic only this right, let them "set up on a wave, listens and corrects, if that is not so. Silent girls Robespierre usually get nervous, do not know what to say to them and how they stir up, but the traditional phrase "Tell me something interesting" in general leads him to a state of mild confusion. No, usually he has something to tell, and storytellers from Robespierres good. However, it is unlikely to be able to guess that it will be interesting companion, especially if he sees it first-second time and had not yet properly explored. Nevertheless, interest in Robik usually quite a lot, so probably soon will have a common interest, and with them the themes for communication.

6. And one more hook on Robespierre. As we all understood Jack secretly wants to be invited home. But Robespierre, probably would like to be able together somewhere out in the march on the nature or on a trip to a nearby town. If Robic to you seriously - certainly offer something similar. Generally, Robic not like to sit in one place, they love to travel and just move. There are among them and extreme, but pointless to risk they do not like. In secret I will say that life partner that can bring even to the end of the world - the cherished dream of Robespierre ...

7. Robespierre, by its nature being quite susceptible, but very responsive, and impress upon him the serious sense if you want you can. However, he doubted all the time, sometimes can not even understand their feelings, not to mention yours, and if not give him emotional support, can become lodged in his doubts. Keep it positive emotions, then certainly it will not torment and indecision will pass quickly. Robespierres, despite some hesitation, do not like uncertainty and are configured on the result, the process of courtship they are interested enough. Deciding on the active steps they can, if intuitively see a real chance of success, the rule "do not catch up, so get warm," they did not like it. Sometimes they can be very decisive, although usually this determination not last long. Castles prefer not to take by storm, and a clever and unobtrusive siege, without the slightest hint of coercive pressure, but with modern non-lethal weapons (all will not reveal, otherwise it would be boring). If Robespierre really loves is not a joke - it will build the most complex and intricate combinations of winning ladies hearts ...

8. Do not need to take the jealousy of Robespierre, even in jest. First, he has a fertile imagination, which can be imagined do not know that, and secondly - the extremely weak black sensing, not designed for confrontation, so all can very quickly and sad end. Most likely he will not arrange the fight against real or perceived rival, but just wish you happiness (although internally upset no joke), and fix anything then it will be very problematic. Nor should we ever make him constantly chasing you and try to persuade you, this sin Princess - Gamletessy. Maybe some time will try, but for a long time such abuse is not a bear - will escape. By the way, to break the existing relationship, even uncomfortable, it is very difficult in such situations, he tries to suppress the voice of black intuition, because of what is suffering, and when it ends - sense of relief.

9. Now about the very-very ... Robespierre because of his natural shyness probably will not solicit and do not drag you to bed, although sometimes not averse to him by such accomplished. Or at least very transparent hint, hints he understands well. Or without the words given to understand that you can act. And best of all, if everything happens as if by itself. When you get very indecisive instance - you can even drink a little, so he relaxed. Military pressure, he does not like to react solely on affection and tenderness. Despite the uncertainty, it is usually very well trained. If too long, nothing happens - sooner or later he will realize that you are not interested, although it may say nothing. On the other hand, if she "surrenders without a fight, most likely will not take it seriously. And when can I? Or you may need when the Company now emotional contact, without any pleasure - sensing weak.

10. Once again - on the ethical and touch points. If at first Robespierre responsive and even completely train, then by the second is much worse. If he just did not notice your new outfit or change of appearance - a sign of weak white sensor systems, rather than indifference to you. By the way, he does not like surprises, so the dye in green or otherwise radically change the appearance does not recommend. Choosing gifts for him - the torment, preferably something to suggest or even hint. On the other hand, if the imagination suggests several options - it will help set priorities. In general, their desires must designate it as INTUIT, not telepathic. Wrestling with the disorder will probably need to work together - Robespierre can be a long time not to notice the unmade canoe in the middle of the room and other foreign objects, while they do not interfere with him to live and work. Sometimes Robespierre is a desire to take care of their neighbor, but take care of himself he does not like. Robespierre may be a long time to do without comfort and convenience, but if you bother about it - it will be nice. However, it is still not Don Quixote, for him the main thing - do not care, and serious feelings and positive emotions, which have any real Gyugoshki should be more than enough.

Nikolay Kolpakov

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